Quality Time

“Therefore, since we have a great high priest who has gone through the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold firmly to the faith we profess. For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are – yet was without sin. Let us then approach the throne of God with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.”

-Hebrews 4:14-16

It’s very easy to for me to get overwhelmed with life. Most of the time I’m just trying to keep up with the daily grind. Add an extra event or activity and I have to really focus to stay on top of things. Add any more than that and I’m completely frazzled. This week we had lots of extras. My mental acuity has gone out the window at this point. I feel like a spastic squirrel.

Usually when this happens, taking care of myself is one of the first things to get pushed to the wayside. And one of the things I know I need to do to take care of myself is to spend some time with God each day, reading my 12 Step literature, devotional, and Bible. I’m thankful to say that at this point in my life, I do this almost every weekday. This hasn’t always been a part of my routine or even a goal of mine, but I have learned that it is vital to keeping my peace of mind. When I first started trying to incorporate this time with God into my routine, it was more of a chore. It was something I felt like I “should” do, but didn’t really want to do. But one day I read in my “Jesus Calling” devotional that God wanted me to enjoy that time with him and look forward to it, instead of dreading it or doing it out of obligation. And that really changed my perspective. When I approached it that way, it really became a blessing and a highlight of my day.

Now even though I do appreciate that time, when I get stressed, it starts to slip out of my routine. I start running around like crazy, trying to do 15 things at once and feeling like I’m getting nothing done at all. I feel like I can’t sit down and let one second of “productive” time slip away. That’s what happened to me this week. It’s Wednesday and I don’t think I’ve done my quiet time with God since last Thursday or Friday. In the past, I have let this become a wedge between me and God. I felt like a little kid who had done something wrong and was too embarrassed to face their parent. So I would go even longer without making time for God, and put even more distance between us, all the while feeling more and more guilt and shame and loneliness.

Over time, as I have gotten to know myself and God better, I can more easily recognize when I am slacking off in this area, and I know that God is not waiting to scold me, but that he is eagerly waiting for this time with me, his beloved child. I know that I can “approach the throne of God with confidence,” because he loves me no matter what. And because he knows what it’s like to be human. I can talk to him about what’s been going on in my life and keeping me so busy. I can ask him to guide me through whatever is happening. The more I practice this, instead of my old habit of hiding in shame, the easier it is to pick up right where I left off after a few days of craziness.

So is there anything that has been keeping you from spending time with God? Remember that nothing can separate you from the love of God (Romans 8:38-39). Nothing you’ve done or have failed to or have done poorly. God is always ready to enjoy some time with you. All you have to do is show up.

Running the Race

“Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us.  Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.  Consider him who endured such opposition from sinful men, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart.”  -Hebrews 12:2-4

I hated running my entire life, up until about 2 years ago.  Then God called me to start running and I did. Of course, I was doing it for the physical benefits, and I didn’t know how much it would help me mentally and emotionally.  As a Navy wife with a deployed husband, two small children, and my family a thousand miles away, running helped me feel free.  I’d drop my kids off at a friend’s house once a week and then go run alone.  The weight of the world melted off of my shoulders. There was nothing but me to take care of for a brief time.

When my husband returned from deployment, we moved to a new base in a hotter climate.  I tried to develop a new routine here and keep up with my running, but I soon found that it was still just as hard to run with my kids along as it was before, and it was way too hot during the day anyway.  So I felt God calling me to do another thing I had always hated – wake up early!  I started waking up before my husband had to leave for work so that I could run alone in the cool of the morning. I never thought it would work for me, but I must say, it is glorious!  There’s nothing like starting the day off with God, running on a boardwalk by the ocean, admiring the sunrise and watching all of his creations come to life. 

I’m still a terrible runner.  I don’t run that fast or that far.  The whole boardwalk is less than two miles. Some days I can run the whole time and some days I can’t. Some days I can wake up and go and sometimes I can’t. Some days it’s hot, cold, windy, or rainy.  Some days I’m dodging large groups of soldiers or sailors who are doing their physical training.  Some days I’m dodging dog poop or crazy sea birds in the middle of a mating ritual.  Some days I’m getting passed by 80-year-old men who are in better shape than me.

But every day, I start at one end of the boardwalk and I run to the other end and back.  The starting point has a large, white sculpture.  So on my way back, as I’m struggling to make it, I can see the sculpture, and I know that I’m getting closer with every step. I know that all I have to do is keep moving forward, and eventually I’ll get there. I know that God is with me whether I’m walking or running. And the moment I realized this, I knew why God wanted me to start running.  That sculpture is Jesus, and that boardwalk is life. No matter what happens around me, or how well I perform, God is here. All I have to do is keep my eyes on him, and keep moving forward.